Trust me, if something must happen, it will happen. The Divine Creator knows what it’s doing. If there is an experience you had assigned to yourself before you were born, you will go through it in life.
There are no excuses, nor waving with magic wands. If you don’t want life to take drastic measure to teach you a lesson, take the necessary steps yourself. That is your ultimate goal anyhow, to overcome yourself.

Wiki G.